{"id":71,"date":"2017-08-21T13:19:38","date_gmt":"2017-08-21T13:19:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/?page_id=71"},"modified":"2022-06-13T20:55:02","modified_gmt":"2022-06-13T20:55:02","slug":"what-happens-in-a-counselling-session","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/what-happens-in-a-counselling-session\/","title":{"rendered":"What happens in a counselling session?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"748\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/about-me-alyson-marlor-counselling\/logo\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?fit=1379%2C460&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1379,460\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"Logo\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?fit=525%2C175&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-748\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=525%2C175&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"525\" height=\"175\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?w=1379&amp;ssl=1 1379w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=300%2C100&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=1024%2C342&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=768%2C256&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"688\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/about-me-alyson-marlor-counselling\/img-n\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?fit=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,684\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG n\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?fit=525%2C351&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-688 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-n.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"690\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/about-me-alyson-marlor-counselling\/img-p\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?fit=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,684\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG p\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?fit=525%2C351&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-690\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-p.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Our sessions would be &#8220;one to one&#8221; therapy where we are together in the same room or working via Zoom or telephone.<\/p>\n<p>The counselling session is your time to talk about whatever you need to. It is a private, undisturbed and safe time. We might talk about your life events (past and present), your feelings, emotions, relationships, ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour. I might ask you questions to understand you better or to suggest things you have not considered, like offering a different perspective. We may work together to try out new ways of being, or to see different points of view or to say things out loud that you have never said before. We will only do what you feel comfortable with and at your pace. You may become emotional during a session and that is ok and normal.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"689\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/about-me-alyson-marlor-counselling\/img-o\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?fit=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,684\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG o\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?fit=525%2C351&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-689\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG-o.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can watch my video to find out more.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/miQcfNWdqxI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Counselling -What happens in therapy and is it for me?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Each session is 50 minutes long.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;Sometimes you just need to talk about something &#8211; not to get sympathy or help but just to kill its power by allowing the truth of things to hit the air.&#8221; \u00a0<\/strong>Karen Salmansohn<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our sessions would be &#8220;one to one&#8221; therapy where we are together in the same room or working via Zoom or telephone. The counselling session is your time to talk about whatever you need to. It is a private, undisturbed and safe time. We might talk about your life events (past and present), your feelings, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/what-happens-in-a-counselling-session\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What happens in a counselling session?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-71","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/P96eCi-19","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":85,"url":"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/what-does-it-cost-2\/","url_meta":{"origin":71,"position":0},"title":"What does counselling cost?","author":"Alyson","date":"August 21, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"The fee for each counselling session is \u00a370 and sessions are 50 minutes long. 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Is something stopping you? You might be considering counselling but you may have some questions or some worries about it. Do you worry that you might be judged or patronized? Or that you might have to do something you would feel uncomfortable about? 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Some people decide that short-term therapy suits them. Others may prefer long-term (over 12 weeks). We can talk about this at the initial session. We can also review it regularly. Most clients come weekly, but fortnightly sessions are also possible. Of course,\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=1050%2C600&ssl=1 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":138,"url":"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/where-is-your-counselling-room\/","url_meta":{"origin":71,"position":3},"title":"Where is your counselling room?","author":"Alyson","date":"August 21, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"I work from a cosy log cabin in my garden in Keynsham. Keynsham is on the A4 easily accessible from Bristol, Bath and the surrounding area. If you drive, I have onsite parking. If you use public transport, there are good bus routes into Keynsham and there is also a\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Logo.png?resize=1050%2C600&ssl=1 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":87,"url":"https:\/\/alysonmarlor.co.uk\/index.php\/where-are-you\/","url_meta":{"origin":71,"position":4},"title":"Useful resources","author":"Alyson","date":"August 21, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Counselling Contract Counselling -What happens in therapy and is it for me? 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